I’ve tried the “sensual” Lomilomi massage that women in Sydney’s poshest suburbs keep talking about

It’s one of the best kept secrets in Sydney’s eastern suburbs, where busy professionals indulge in a sensual massage, better known as the Kahuna Lomilomi massage.

My idea of ​​complete relaxation is a trip to the day spa for a few relaxing hours and an escape from my hectic everyday life.

But today, my knowledge of relaxation is being taken to the next level by experiencing a Hawaiian-style massage that some say is so powerful You can experience an earth-shattering orgasm on the table.

Of course I was curious.

To be clear, this is not a “happy ending” massage. It is a sensual – not sexual – massage and there is no contact with the genitals.

I may not look like it, but I was nervous about what to expect from my Kahuna Lomilomi massage

Some say the Hawaiian-style massage is so powerful that you can experience an earth-shattering orgasm on the couch

After tracking a suitable masseuse, trained in Kahuna LomilomiI am invited to the therapist’s home studio to try out the massage for myself.

Be quiet, I’m scared.

I arrive nervously at my appointment on the cliffs of Dover Heights overlooking the ocean in Sydney’s east.

I am welcomed into Steve’s elegant studio where he gives me a general overview of what to expect from our session.

“It’s like making love without any sexual focus or intention whatsoever — just caring touch and connection,” he tells me.

Covered only with a towel, this treatment requires you to “let go of your inhibitions” and focus on your breathing.

Steve explains that this is more than just a physical massage, it is an energy exchange that can be a healing experience that balances body, mind and spirit.

“Letting go” is not one of my strengths, and for the sake of research I have to constantly behave “a la naturale” while trying Forget I received a sensual massage from a man I found via google.

I arrived at Steve’s home studio in Dover Heights for the session

Behind the scenes of my very first Kahuna Lomilomi massage

Steve massaged my calf with his elbows throughout the session

Wrapped in only a sarong and towel, the massage begins with a dry brushing of the body before moving on to heated oils and hot stones.

While this was in no way a sexual experience, I can’t pretend my body didn’t respond.

The entire body is massaged with long, rhythmic and sweeping movements, mimicking the gentle rocking motion of the ocean with the hands and forearms.

Different parts of the body are often massaged at the same time.

At times I felt like a Romanian gymnast – he was stretched, flexed and once twirled around the massage bed blindfolded.

I was warned that this massage was unlike anything else.

Steve explains that women make up up to 70 percent of his clientele; However, there are times when his male clients bother him as well.

He explains that it’s not uncommon for some people to get emotional during the sessions and even have a spiritual experience.

Recently, a friend shared her experience of having the same massage, but from a different masseuse.

She experienced a spiritual, out-of-body orgasm that you only read about in erotic fantasy novels for women.

“It was like nothing I had ever experienced before.” “It was the best orgasm of my life and there was no penetration,” she boasted

Although I really enjoyed the time at the table with Steve, my “happy ending” was very different from that of my girlfriend.

After the 90 minute treatment I was smiling from ear to ear and feeling freer, lighter and rejuvenated beyond all expectations.

I have already booked a round trip session with Steve for next month.